Prosperity Horizons Educational Blog, Issue 17
Friday, April 18, 2006
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When your child is having difficulty at school, it's imperative that the parent finds out the cause. It may be not understanding only a specific subject. Solving the difficulty may be as easy as providing the child with a little individual help in that subject. That's when tutoring could be an invaluable resource. And online tutoring is now a regular and viable alternative. When the child finally "gets it" after having felt "stupid", he frequently solves many of his social problems as well.
Working With A Tutor - How To Get The Best Out Of Tutoring
By Damaris West
In our many years as an agency, we have
met very few tutors who weren't what they purported to be.
The probablility of this happening to you is very small but
it is not zero. Of those few we know, multiple names,
multiple social security numbers, and phoney referees and
qualifications are not unheard of however the application of
commensense can overcome even these elaborations of deceit.
When talking to a tutor, never lose sight of the fact that
they are providing you with a service and that your wishes
count. Decent tutors will not only be experienced in dealing
with concerned clients, they will also be able to see things
from a client's point of view. Remember too, that no
self-respecting tutor would wish to be put in a spot where
their reputation is unnecessarily put at risk.
Here are ten simple tips to be secure and to make sure you
are getting what you are paying for.
1. When you first speak to the tutor, tell them about the
student and what you want to achieve. Ask the tutor how he
or she thinks this can be achieved. A good tutor will have
lots of ideas and will be full of 'we can do this or this'
and 'I know just what you mean - two of my other students -
we ... ' and so on. A bad one will want you to come up with
all the ideas or not have the confidence to decide
themselves.
2. Tell the tutor that you will want to be nearby while the
lesson is taking place (eg an adjacent room with the door
open). Surprisingly enough, any decent tutor should refuse
to take the booking on if they (the tutor) didn't feel that
adequate chaperoning was on hand.
3. Remember that the tutor has a job to do and this involves
gaining the trust of your child so don't cause the child to
feel threatened - make the 'being around' as commonplace and
as natural as you can. After a few lessons both you and the
tutor may feel that there is no need for full-time
chaperoning and you can go off and leave them for a while
but always go with the most cautious vote.
4. It is generally considered unacceptable to do tuition in
a room containing a bed. Tuition should take place in a
quiet room, free of distractions with both student and tutor
comfortably seated in highback chairs at a big table.
5. Listen to the way the tutor talks to you about the
business side of the tuition. Someone who speaks plainly
about how much and when they get paid is clearly driven by
the commercial aspect of the work and probably perfectly
safe. On the other hand, a tutor who wants to tell you about
their altruistic drive to spread knowledge is most
definitely one to avoid.
6. If the tutor is going to you, get their full name,
address and phone number. This needs to be verified and a
nice way to do that without being obvious is to offer to
post directions or call the tutor back to confirm a proposed
lesson time.
7. If the tutor is coming to you, ask them to show you a
Utility Bill (gas, electric or the like) with their name and
address on and/or something containing their National
Insurance or Social Security number. If you get any adverse
reaction to this you can respond that it is for the purpose
of identifying the parties entering the contract (it should
also make you suspicious).
8. If the lesson is at your home, nip in half-way through
and offer tea and coffee (don't offer it immediately, let
the student and tutor settle down for a while). This will
give you a legitimate reason for intruding and, no doubt, be
well-received as well. If you really want a fail-safe (more
applicable for older students), have a pre-arranged code -
"No, I don't want a drink, Mum" means "This is awful" or "A
cup of tea please." means "Brilliant - this tutor's really
good!" - whatever.
9. Go into the lesson room 5 minutes or 10 minutes before
the end of the lesson with a cheque correctly made out or
cash for the correct amount. Use the remaining time to
debrief the tutor and to obtain some practice work to
reinforce the tuition in between lessons. Don't waste this
time fumbling about with change or expect the tutor to hang
around while you sort it out or bend their ear. A good tutor
has other clients and they deserve the full lesson time as
much as you do.
10. Ask your child to tell you about the lesson immediately
afterwards. Let them do the talking. Say what did they like
most, like least and what did they think to the tutor. Be
very careful not to put words in their mouths. A good way of
reinforcing their learning (and you keeping tabs on the
tutor) is to ask the student to 'teach' you.
Private tuition is a highly efficient way of learning -
follow this advice and reap its benefits.
Damaris West is Managing Director of worldwide tutor agency Anysubject Ltd which she runs from the Italian office. Anysubject provides tutoring in all academic subjects, musical instruments and foreign languages. Visit the Anysubject website - http://www.anysubject.com or see the free guides section - http://www.anysubject.com/helpful-guides.asp
Why You Should
Consider Online Tutoring
by Scott Palat
When most parents hear the word online
tutoring, they can't quite envision it, but when students
hear the word online tutoring, they are intrigued. Online
tutoring allows a tutor and student to communicate from
computer to computer. Most online tutoring sessions take
place inside an online classroom.
Many online tutoring services offer a whiteboard so words
can be written or drawn with the mouse and keyboard. Only
the best online tutoring classrooms offer voice over ip.
This means both the student and tutor can speak through the
computer as long as both have a microphone and speakers.
Once the parent understands the concept of online tutoring,
they are often times amazed. Their child can ask any
question and the tutor is able to walk the student through
the entire problem solving process and help the student to
solve each problem. This one on one communication is what
most students need to overcome learning obstacles.
In the classroom, most students are left behind if they
don't ask specific questions to help them understand what
they are learning. Once a student starts falling behind,
tutoring must be provided to prevent failing grades. Often
times a personal face to face tutor intimidates students and
still might not help.
Online tutoring allows any student to get the one on one
attention they need without the intimidation factor.
Students feel comfortable learning online and the fact that
each lesson can be printed is a wonderful study tool.
If you never tried online tutoring, I suggest you give it a
try and allow your child to learn online. The cost is
usually less than a private tutor and you won't have to
drive and worry about scheduling issues. Your child can
learn from any computer as long as there is an internet
connection.
Go to
www.live-etutor.com to learn more about online
tutoring and watch a virtual tour inside of our online
classroom. All tutors are screened, qualified and ready to
help your child get better grades!
Scott Palat graduated from Indiana University of
Pennsylvania with a Health and Physical Education degree. In
2002, Scott started
www.ehomeworkhelp.com because he saw a need to
help struggling students complete their homework assignments
and understand their schoolwork. Since this time, E Homework
Help inc. and
http://www.live-etutor.com have helped hundreds of
students get better grades.
See what online tutoring with voice is all about. Our private tutors will help you get better grades and this is a guarantee. View a demonstration right now. Go to http://www.live-etutor.com for more information.
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